Telling it how it is

The things we don't say out loud

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  • To the narcissist

    I’m gonna tell you something you’ve probably heard a number of times before but I’ll say it anyway in the hope that one day it might sink in.You’re a narcissist.You gaslight.You hurt people.It doesn’t look good, it’s not attractive and it’s not cool.Of course, most people don’t see it. You’re good at what you do.You’re…

    toniameadows

    9th Sep 2023
    break ups, narcissism, relationship
    break up, controlling, healing, narcissism, narcissist, narcissistic, relationship
  • Kids’ birthday parties suck!

    Whether it your own or somebody else’s… I don’t care! They suck! The screaming, the mind shattered wired as fuck laughter, the inevitable tears, it all sucks! Now, this was bad enough when it was my own, but these aren’t even mine! These are my boyfriends kids, and the pain is real! I do this…

    toniameadows

    9th Jul 2023
    blog, children, kids, parenting, party
    children, children’sparties, failedparenting, kids, kidsparties, party
  • How many times is acceptable to refill the bath?

    I’m on to my third refill! Well, kind of! Semi refill! I only let out some of the water! There’s a knack to this I think. For me I cover the plug with my feet whilst running the hot tap. That way, the hot water doesn’t get sucked down. That’s my logic! I’m using it.…

    toniameadows

    18th Apr 2023
    bath, bathtime, bathtub, british, hard times, lifestyle, personal, self, spa, Uncategorized
    bath, bathtime, bathtub, dramas, hard times, lifestyle, personal, self
  • The Cosmetic Surgery Trap

    I have wilfully succumbed to the pressures of cosmetic surgery, and I have no intentions of stopping! The pressures of social media to look like a supermodel are ever present and to maintain a youthful appearance consuming. I have recently become a cosmetic surgery tourist, having travelled to Istanbul, Turkey for an eyelift procedure, and…

    toniameadows

    7th Apr 2023
    Aesthetics, blepharoplasty, Cosmetic Surgery, eye lift, hair transplant, Instagram, Istanbul, lifestyle, personal, self, social media, Turkey
    Aesthetics, blepharoplasty, Cosmetic Surgery, eye lift, hair transplant, Instagram, Istanbul, social media, Turkey
  • Talking about ourselves … nobody gives a shit!

    So many stories of, this is my story. Nobody actually cares 😶 Unless you are going to make somebody more powerful, wealthy or beautiful, nobody cares. Or alternatively, fit the ‘it’s ok not to be ok’ positivity bracket (the broken person’s crutch I call it), nobody cares. And yet we still do it, because there…

    toniameadows

    2nd Apr 2023
    blog, british, care, lifestyle, personal, self, talk, Uncategorized
    blog, care, dailyprompt, lifestyle, personal, self, talk
  • Prince harry spare statement and now taliban holding British men. Coincident much?

    Perusing through the news and I’ve read and article that talisman in Afghanistan are holding three British men, two of which since January. Now, I may be being quite clinical here, however I can’t help but wonder if Harry’s book spare has ruffled enough feathers and is at all partly responsible. He talks a lot…

    toniameadows

    1st Apr 2023
    Afghanistan, british, british army, hostage, lifestyle, personal, prince harry, spare
    Afghanistan, british, British men, hostage, prince harry, spare, taliban
  • Virtual Reality Porn!

    Virtual Reality Porn!

    The long and short of it. The short of it …. My boyfriend loves porn He has recently discovered virtual reality porn I hardly get any sex now and I have totally gone off it …. with him I’m in a shit sex relationship! I’m angry. Pissed off. And filled with rage! The long of…

    toniameadows

    31st Mar 2023
    intimacy, lifestyle, masturbation, personal, porn, sex, virtual reality, vr
    lifestyle, masturbation, personal, porn, sex, virtual reality, vr
  • Spa etiquette

    Let’s talk spa etiquette! I’m not even sure how to say this or even where to begin.  I find it truly tragic, hilarious, and embarrassing that this even has to be said! No massaging men in the steam room! 🤦🏼‍♀️ This immediately tells me that you are likely a bit insecure, probably slightly possessive and incredibly…

    toniameadows

    30th Mar 2023
    exercise, lifestyle, personal, spa, Uncategorized
    etiquette, exercise, gym, lifestyle, spa
  • Does anyone else leak water from their fanny after a bath?

    Does anyone else leak water from their fanny after a bath?

    I love a good bath.  I like it deep, hot and bubbly. This is one of life’s luxuries and I adore the time to relax 😌 However! Following a bath, getting ready for the day and all that good stuff, I have taken my dog for his morning walk and lord behold, it appears I…

    toniameadows

    29th Mar 2023
    lifestyle, personal, Uncategorized
    age, incontinence, lifestyle, personal
  • Hello World!

    Welcome to WordPress! This is your first post. Edit or delete it to take the first step in your blogging journey.

    toniameadows

    29th Mar 2023
    Uncategorized

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